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This days people are working along with intelligent machines, establishing strong rapport with customers, patients, or co-workers and that all become  more important part of life.

Besides that we want to make a powerful first impression when meeting new people at a dinner party, and wants to have a meaningful conversation with  teenager and child, or mesmerize an audience when giving a presentation.

To do all these we have to adapt some skills and the good news is that effective communication is a learned skill

Communication skills is not just mean to have a good speaking power in international languages. One of the very obvious parts of your communication skills is your Non Verbal Communication Skills. You can represent your communication in any language but your tone of voice, eye contact and other gesture posture even selection of words should be proper and up to the mark with the situation.

As we grown up we come across with our own culture, we get our education, and our family background helps us to borrow all these behavioural communication. But inn our social we have to adjust and make our self comfortable in the outer world and that could be our professional life, work life, even for any social gathering. And this is a good thing that you can learn all these skills to make yourself perfect for any situation.

So here are some tips which you can make you prepare yourself in the most demand Non Verbal Communication Skills.

Think of your body language– While talking with someone maintaining perfect eye contact and turning directly toward to them will show them that they have your undivided attention. They will feel interest to continue conversation with you.

Get a sense of the other person’s mood– May you are happy or sad while speaking with someone. But before talking, judge the mood of the other person and try to match it. Because may be that person’s mood may not so good to listen your happy story or may he is not aware your sadness and without knowing  you could have spoil his mood. So before starting conversation you should judge his mood. You can start conversation with like.. So all well? Or What news? Or Hope all good?

Ambience of similarity–It has been seen that people only get comfortable if they join in similar group. This is also true that people will accept you as one of them if you subtly match their body movements and speaking style. So you have to create a capacity within you to melt yourself in the ambience of similarity. Only huge nos. of public communication can help you to overcome yourself in your comfortable zone and help you to match with others.

Praise, don’t flatter– Most of the people does not have intention to Praise other, people loved to do destructive criticism or sometime praise someone such a way that it becomes flattering. But remember more discreet way of praising someone is voicing your compliment to that person’s closest associate.

Come prepared – Preparation is one of the things that never let you down in any situation. So before joining a function or social gathering, find out who will be there and for what purpose. Because if you know the purpose you can be careful about your body language along with your dress code and you could have an idea to represent yourself and may also have idea about the common topic to be discussed there.

All above discussed tips of effective non verbal communication are the skills that you can learn easily. Its only required your little effort of learning skills.

 

Madhumita - Blogger|Groomer|HR|Consultant

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