It is been noticed that when we start communicate with any persons our first focus is on the person’s face, and if that face is flourishing with a sweet smile then the communication become more friendly and useful. A genuine smile always shows that you are approachable, trustworthy, and co operative, not only that it also shows that you are well being. Smile is the only thing of a human face which can influence others directly and a smiling face can easily see how other people are responding to them. When you are smiling to someone most of the cases they return smile almost always, and the smile what you get back means that person’s emotional states to you in a positive way. Communication may be personal or professional but if it starts or continues with a smile then it can create a charm or some impact on the receiver of the communication.
“An Apple Keeps A Doctor Away”… yes it is avery common proverb to keep us healthy. But the same way if we see Smile is also one of the important factors to avoid diseases. Even research says that laughter can heal lots of metal stress and helps us to be fit and healthy. Laughter helps to reduce anxiety, tension and depression level. It is true some worries or fear can’t be avoidable but by the help of laughter we can forget these things at least for a while. Sometimes when we feel tired if any friend speaks jokes or even any comedy soaps can remove our tiredness and we feel a bit fresh by this.
These days lots of laughter therapy, laughter yoga has introduced to reduce our stress level and in today’s world people are keen to take the help of this updated system to stay healthy and fit. But in day to day life we can take few steps to moralise ourselves and lift the corner of our lips to have a great smile on our face.
Yes… we can try some small things like just stand in front of mirror and make a smile and say ‘Hello’… sound silly? Yes it may sound silly but believe me repeatedly saying the same in front of mirror helps you to know how your smile reflects to the receiver of the communication. If you feel it does not look good then you can change your style and go for the better one. At the same time in any public communication like to your friends, colleagues, clients with an attitude flash your smile and say ‘Hello’ and see the reaction of them, it is of course will give you a positive feedback. You never know your smile can heal a unknown person’s sorrow or pain. If you smile and say a two words with a mother facing trouble with her kids, see her reaction may she feels comfortable and starts discuss her problems with you, or even if you smile to an old man and exchange few words with him then he may feel relief and discuss with you about his every day’s work. Actually these are the small things which we ignore but it may change other person’s few minutes from a day. Yes try this it would be a great fun. And if you meet someone does not have smile on his face, you give your smile to him and see his reaction.
One thing we all should keep in mind that may we are well dressed, well groomed but if does not have a smile on face we can’t create any powerful impact on the receiver of the communication as you never be dressed fully without a smile.
Anirban Bera
such a nice information you have shared. keep it up Madam.